Tuesday, November 3, 2009

my ideal girl...

so today i got to thinking about my ideal girl. please don't misunderstand this post. these are just the thoughts that ran across my mind when i was thinking about my ideal girl...

she couldn't be 1 dimensional. her beauty alone would be absolutely amazing. but her intelligence and maturity would be just as amazing if not more. i'm not asking for a supermodel. i'm not asking for a doctor. but a woman who understands there is no reason to mask her natural beauty with make up. don't get me wrong. i understand how make up can enhance natural beauty. but trust me baby when i say, you don't need it. she can hold her own. her style, her grace, her swagger. is like no other. because it's natural. she is who many try to be. original. willing to lounge around the house with me in some basketball shorts and a shirt on a lazy sunday watching football. [and she tries her best to get into the game with me] a girl who can throw on a dress and some heels and turn heads. our sexual chemistry would always seem to be @ it's peak. this relationship isn't based solely on sex at all. but we can't seem to keep our hands off each other. constantly flirting. teasing. pleasing. she's my girl, so she comes first. and then i'll follow. [keep your mind out the gutter...] she can cook. but so can i. and what we both can't, we'll learn. if not from each other. together. and that's the attitude we carry throughout life as well. we motivate each. we inspire each other. she's my ride or die. and i got her back just the same. she knows everything about me. and i, everything about her. we may have come up separately. but we share the same core values. and this bond is impossible to break. we don't have to always have something to say to the other. the company is enough at times. we argue. but we never fight. we disagree. but we're never over. our relationship is a soulful one. music. love. laughter. the perfect tag team. we're addicted to each other...

...just my thoughts. a combination of all of my favorite qualities i've seen women display. maybe this is just a fantasy. but we're all entitled to our own dreams right? well let's just say this is one i can't help but wish it comes true...

2 comments:

  1. *applause* i feel this very mucho

    Hint: If you [meaning anyone who read/wrote this entry] had someone in mind the entire time you were reading, maybe you already are blessed with your ideal soulmate. Now it's just a matter of whether the feeling is mutual or not.

    :)

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  2. wow...I remember I was an avid reader of your blog about a year or so ago. Back when you were using the old one, itsmykeb...You are a great inspiration, and you always have such great, informative, real-ass blogs. lol But moving on to your actual post, I honestly wish I could give you a standing ovation...It was really beautiful. I mean you painted such a vivid picture for me in my head...idk...I've just never read anything so direct and real...I mean the fact that you can actual say what you want and mean it, goes a very long way...especially since you are a guy (no offense)!...All in All i think your posts are very intriguing and relatable and I am glad I came across you (again)...

    I hope I didn't freak you out...sorry for the long drawn out comment!

    :)

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